Giving enhances your relationship with yourself and others. You get to choose how much is "enough". Your thoughts, words and actions do not violate or sabotage the self. There is an internal knowing that you have value and worth. You are whole. You have all that you need to handle whatever comes up. Giving is the space of self-trust, wholeness, self-confidence, self-love, self-acceptance and self-esteem.
Emptying depletes and diminishes your relationship with yourself and others. This is when you are taking too much responsibility for others and or not enough responsibility for yourself. This is the world of expectations, shoulds, people pleasing, trying to fit in, needing to be liked or acknowledged, trying to avoid conflict, the need for approval, love, acceptance, attention or permission. Looking for the outer world to validate or give you value and worth. This is the level of no choice & powerlessness.
What patterns and themes are you noticing? What is your biggest obstacle? What are the beliefs that hold it in place? What would you have to be willing to let go of or surrender to have a different outcome? Are you committed to make that change? When?
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